Home!

We've been home for a week and a half and life is good!  Its hard for me to believe that we've only known BB for two and half weeks because it feels like he has been with us forever, he has slipped so easily into our lives and we are all so besotted with this little guy.  Loopy and BB both struggled a bit with the time change when we first got home (okay a lot, they struggled a LOT) which meant in turn Simon and I were pretty bleary eyed for the first few days but we're starting to hit our stride now.  Poor Simon had to go straight back to work and I really, really don't know how he coped but he did, the man is a SUPERSTAR! 

I think BB is, understandably, still trying to process what the heck has happened but he is mostly a very easy going kind of guy and pretty much goes with the flow, we see a little more of his personality every day and I'm doing my best not to eat him alive - he's that yummie! 

I am sooooooo proud of Loopy she is so good with her baby brother and takes such joy from everything he does, she calls him her "sunshine baby" and he is the first person she looks for in the morning.  In return BB gazes at Loopy with total love and admiration, they are definitely both smitten.

In the interest of truth in blogging I have to confess that it has not all been smiles and sunshine,  on Monday I'm ashamed to confess I had a total melt down.  Its so hot and humid here and with only a couple of window AC units the house is a bit of a hell hole and for some reason the House Fairies did NOT clean up for me while we were in Taiwan (b******ds) so the house was still a total mess when we got home.  Except now it also has half unpacked suitcases scattered all over the floor, along with various newly acquired baby paraphernalia, which seems to have been carefully positioned to trip you up no matter which direction you walk in.  Between that and running out of formula (don't even ask) and a baby who did not want to be put down and a 3 year old who was flexing her big girl muscles "no Mummy, I don't want my hair brushed, no I don't want to go to the supermarket, no, no, NO!" which resulted in Loopy and I having a VERY grumpy day.  Thankfully BB was mostly oblivious but the wait for the formula to be purchased along with his full on teething was enough to send even him over the edge in the end.  It was certainly not one of my better parenting days and involved a lot of shouting (me) tears, (all of us) and ended with us all napping in the big bed from exhaustion.

Apologies were made as needed (that would be by me) and luckily for me Loopy is a very forgiving soul and not one to hold a grudge. Although when we were telling Simon about our Hideous Totally Grumpy day, with Mama Grump, Loopy Grump and Baby Brother Grump, she did report to him that "Mummy was the biggest grump of all" what can I say, the child doesn't lie!

Now here is what you've been waiting for .. . . .photos!  I'm grabbing moments as I can and will post about the rest of our time in Taiwan as soon as I can.

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OMG, look what I found under my desk!

A thousand apologies I know I am the worst blogger in the world, I have multiple posts on the go just sitting in draft waiting to be finished but my keyboard is being held hostage by two of the cutest little imps in the world universe.  Soooooo much to tell, its been a total TRIP!!!! Taiwan is wonderful, at least as far as I've been able to see its wonderful!  I can't wait to come back when the afore mentioned Imps can actually walk, well in the case of Imp One, when she can walk 10 blocks without begging to be carried and in the case of Imp Two when he can actually walk!

Will try and catch up but in the meantime just look at what I found under my desk.  You know they do say that the family that exercises together stays together, I couldn't fit under the desk so I just took pics instead.

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Something tells me these two are going to be thick as thieves, I might as well just admit defeat and surrender now.

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Back with an actual post as soon as I figure out how to get them to let me out of the cupboard, I think its the bigger one whose the ring leader but the little one is a right scallywag too!

Things continue to go well.

Loopy is really enjoying things so far!
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"Probably" not going to die - apparently.

I expect I've just totally jinxed myself and the next post will be from Simon  with funeral service details and requesting donations to my favorite charity instead of flowers but it would appear that I most probably won't be dying today, "probably".

Its all a bit of a blur, we did take the nap I remember that bit but after that instead of waking refreshed and full of vim and vigour I awoke wondering who I would most likely puke all over first, Loopy or Simon Of course, being the considerate person that I am, I didn't puke on either of them, I didn't puke on anyone, I just writhed on the floor in agony and slept and slept and writhed some more.  I can't remember when I last felt so ill, ack you forget just how horrible "ill" is.  I'm just so thankful that we arranged to meet BB on Monday and not as soon as we got here, because that would not have gone well!  I was thinking it would be good to have a buffer of a few days so that Loopy could acclimatise and get settled into hotel life and do some exploring but as it turns out its me that's needing the buffer!

Right now my head is still pounding and I'm getting the occasional cramp but I'm feeling much better than yesterday so I might actually get to venture out of the hotel!  Its certainly been a strange trip so far, I never even got to tell you about my total and complete melt down on Monday, OMG I totally lost it, I was just a gibbering wreck (which I will now choose to blame on my then impending illness).  As per usual for me I had thought I was more ready than I really was and suddenly what I thought was just a quick couple of hours packing before we left was actually more packing than could ever be accomplished in two weeks let alone 2 hours.  The heatwave in a house with no AC didn't help matters and I was soon a hot sticky hyperventilating mess, sobbing on the floor and telling Simon that we'd never be ready and that I wasn't going, EVER and that it was just too, too, cruel to make poor BB join our terrible, disorganized, mentally deranged and general all round useless family . . . .  well apart from Loopy, she's not any of the above but she's also a little small to travel to Taiwan all by herself to bring her baby brother home.

Simon just turned a little pale and pretty much ignored me (his usual default position in the face of danger) whilst continuing to throw things in the suitcases.  We've ended up with approx 400 "just in case/their so useful" plastic zippy bags since neither one of us knew the other was throwing them in and I seem to have brought enough tampons to last several years due to the fact that I kept panicking that I hadn't put any in and so would lob another box in but other than that we seem to have done not too bad a packing job all things considered.

I'm just hoping that between melt downs and stomach bugs we have got all the "weirdness" out of the way for this trip -keep your fingers crossed for us!

Whilst I've been typing this Loopy has been systematically peeling the wrappers off every single one of her new crayons but I'm still too weak to offer resistance and Simon is snoring in the bed so "naked" crayons it is.

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However, now, since now there are no crayons left to peel, she is demanding attention so luckily for you I will have to stop my moaning and try to entertain her.

p.s Yes that is a black eye she has, we were doing a last minute shop at the weekend before we left and Simon and Loopy made their usual pilgrimage to the Apple store and whilst under the care and supervision of her attentive and responsible father Loopy managed to whack her face into a fixture resulting in this beautiful shiner.  Mr Yeh, the guide who collected us from the airport (and who is a retired police officer) noticed it immediately and questioned us - he clearly has us marked down as "suspect" and will no doubt be monitoring us for any other slacker parent type behaviour.  I wanted to tell him it was all Simon's fault but between his English and our Chinese it was easier just to look appropriately sheepish.

All kinds of weird!

We're here!  Here in TAIWAN!!!!!!!!!!  Its totally weird, not Taiwan, Taiwan is fabulous and actually feels so familiar its bizarre.  No, the weird is we are going to meet our son in a few days, this whole trip is WEIRD or it could just be that leaving the US on Monday and arriving in Taipei on Wednesday is what is weird.  I think we are all going to take a nap and then hit Taipei!!!!!!!!

Back later with photos and stuff :)

Look out Taiwan here we come!!!

Going to Taiwaaan, Taiwaaaan, Taiwaaan, we're going to Taiwaaan, Taaaaaiwaaan!  Going to Taiwaaan, Taiwaaan, Taiwaaan!!!!! Repeat ad infinitum, whilst doing the conga round the house.

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P.S We totally have a spooky wood spirit in our front door, just look at the face.  I'm just hoping its a force for good and not visiting from the dark side!
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Its official

He is ours, all ours!!!!  Can't stop pinching myself!  It is my total delight to finally be able to properly introduce our son to you.  These are a couple of my favorite photos, I've been dying to plaster them all over the Internet, because, as you know, that's the kind of mother I am, but our agency requested that photos not be posted until the court process was final - which it now is!  Welcome to the family darling BB, now we've just got to get your name figured out.

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p.s Panic filled posts sure to follow soon!

Come on over!

I'm behind with everything, I owe a zillion replies to emails (sorry), I owe a zillion thank you cards (sorry, sorry),  I haven't sent a care package to BB in Taiwan (terrible mother), my "To do" list is now covering 5 sheets of A4 paper - both sides!!  I  decided we should try and get our house organized and re-arranged, in anticipation of BB's arrival, with the result that it currently looks like a bomb went off.  Note to self never, never, never think you can tame the junk room, you will only make it very angry and instead of junk being in just one room it will end up in EVERY room of your home.

So since I clearly haven't been doing any of the things that need doing, that I should be doing, just what have I been up to?  I'm glad you ask Debberoo!  I've been being led astray.  I've fallen under the influence of "those girls", you know the ones, they sit at the back of the room passing notes and giggling and whispering "she said BOTTOM", every time Miss says "You Girls are at the bottom of this class"  I LOVE those girls, they keep me laughing, they listen to my woes, they know when I need my hand held and when I need a gentle (or not so gentle) push.

Two of them I have met in "real life" (twice) and one I have only ever known from her written word, they have been my "go to peeps" when I have good news or bad and now we've only gone and started a blog together.  I know, crazy!  We really don't know what we're going to be doing over there, I mean we came up with loads of ideas but we have a way of getting distracted and 30 emails later we're looking at each other wondering "what were we talking about?"

We hope Mimosa will be fun and we'd love you to come on over and join the party, chat and share your POV's on a myriad of topics, both the serious and the totally fluffy.  That is, assuming we do actually manage to get some posts up, none of us are exactly known for the volume of our posts, sporadic I believe is the word, but hey with 4 of us that's got to be at least 4 posts a month right?

Hope to see you here and don't be shy about hitting that "comment" button, trust me, you've got to speak up loudly to get a word in edgeways with those hooligans!

Super Tuesday

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And vote we did.  Come on Hillary, you can do it!

Oh and it certainly was a "super" Tuesday since we got updated photos and video of BB!!  I don't know what they're feeding our boy but he is the size of an elephant, a very beautiful elephant.  It is starting to dawn on Lulu that this baby is going to be coming to stay and she is not impressed.  When I finally got her to look at the photos she told me very adamantly "paperwork not finished".  We've been explaining that we will go get BB when the paperwork is done and apparently she wanted to make sure we all knew that now is not the time to bring him home.

Its going to be an interesting transition for everyone!

Little Mouse Emergency Fund

Before we were able to care for our daughter, the Aunties at Chenzhou SWI did that for us, right now they are struggling to look after the children still in their care because of all the problems caused by the terrible weather they have been having in China. 

Chenzhou SWI is one of the many orphanages that benefit from the wonderful work that Half the Sky does.  Half the Sky made a huge difference to Lulu in her first year of life and we will be forever grateful to them, the people who donate to them and the staff at Chenzhou SWI.  We know that when we make a donation to them those $$ are put to great use changing many lives for the better.

Right now Half the Sky are working hard to contact orphanages to see how they are coping with this awful weather and to see what help they need.  Chenzhou SWI is one of many orphanages that have been affected.  If you haven't already done so please donate if you can, Half the Sky are in a great position to turn our $$ donations into immediate help and relief for those who need it most during this emergency.

If you go to the Half the Sky  website you can get all the information on how to donate to the "Little Mouse Emergency Fund".  I have copied below the latest news they have on the orphanages that need help.

"Further news from HTS regarding our little ones in China

February 1st, 2008

Welfare institutions in south and central China are having the hardest time dealing with the weather disaster.  This part of the country is simply not equipped to deal with extreme cold or heavy snow and ice.  The most common critical problems are power outages, lack of safe drinking and cooking water, lack of fuel, diapers and public transportation.  In many places where buses have stopped running, our Half the Sky nannies have been walking hours (in one case, 4 hours) along icy roads to get to the children.  As conditions worsen, our nannies and teachers are remaining at the institutions day and night.  They have given up the idea of going home to their own families for the holidays.  They need quilts.  They need warm clothing.  They need coal, water, disposable diapers and food. Here are the reports I have thus far, while in-flight.  I will send more soon.  Where you don’t see a report, either all is well or I don’t yet have information.  I will tell you when we’ve heard from everyone. We’ve also given all the directors an emergency number to call when/if the situation changes. 

Hunan Province – Chenzhou has had no electricity or water for six days.  They are relying on coal for heat and cooking.  The supermarkets and banks are closed. Staff is using personal money for baby food, diapers, coal and water. Costs are rising due to shortages.  They have a natural well which, thankfully, is not frozen.  Even the older children are helping to fetch water.  They have perhaps six days of food remaining.  The local government is overwhelmed by the disaster and is unable to help much. 

Shaoyang has seen heavy snow every day for 20 days.  There is sufficient water and, for the moment, there is power, so the children are warm. However, 5 of 6 power poles have been downed by weather.  Only one stands and the institution fears it will fall as well, leaving them without electricity.  Much of the rest of the city is already dark.  Children and caregivers continue to work and play together.  High school students are cramming for exams and trying to ignore the cold. Everyone prays that the power pole will continue to stand. Yueyang also has no electricity.  The one functioning power generator is being used in the children’s dormitory.  They are relying on coal heat but the price has tripled in recent days.  They are running out of food and have applied to the local Bureau of Civil Affairs for funds to buy more. Our HTS nannies have been walking for hours to get to work, often slipping on the ice, “even though they try to be cautious.” 

Xiangtan has had snow for the past 10 days.  The main water pipe is “broken again.” There is no water for cooking right now but they do have electricity, coal and blankets.  They are still able to buy food but prices have gone way up.  Not all of the HTS nannies can get to work every day. They are keeping the programs going as well as they can and make sure that at least five nurturing nannies are there with the babies every day, along with the institution’s caregivers. Jiangsu Province – Changzhou has seen some heavy snows but the director reports that the children are fine.  The director says that he’s doing his best to ensure that the children do not suffer.  Public transportation is crippled by the snow and HTS nannies and teachers are waiting for hours to catch a bus for home or even walking home in the snowy dark. 

Nanjing reports no problems at all despite the heavy snows.  I tried to fly into Nanjing yesterday but it was not possible. Anhui Province -  

Chuzhou has both water and power.  Only public transportation has failed. HTS nannies and teachers are walking to work.  They are leaving home extra early to be there for the children. Guangxi Province – 

Guilin has two broken HTS heater/air conditioners in the Infant Nurture rooms and they’ve asked us to replace.  The rooms are very, very cold. They ask for more soft matting for the floors and also snow boots for our HTS nannies who’ve been slipping and falling in the ice and snow as they come to work.  They are so ill-equipped to handle severe weather. Jiangxi Province – 

Fuzhou lost power for a few days but now it is back to normal.  The snow stopped a couple of days ago but now is falling again. The directors and HTS staff have gathered all the children into one big room to keep them warm.  They’ve bought New Years clothes for the children and will have a party no matter how bad the weather.  This year, however, the foster parents will stay home to keep the children safe. The institution has enough food and water.  They want us to focus on those in more serious trouble and ask us please not to worry. Jiujiang says they’ve never faced such bitter weather. They desperately need disposable diapers.  Washable diapers cannot be dried.  They need warm clothes, shoes, gloves hats quilts and warm mats for the floors. They need medicine for infant coughs and colds. 

Hubei Province – Wuhan suffers heavy snows but they still have power.  Heaters are working but there is no water for bathing.  The local community has offered to take children in for the Chinese New Year and the institution feels this may be the best decision to keep them safe. 

Huangshi reports that the freeze is so severe that all heater/air conditioners have stopped functioning.  They need quilts and warm clothes for the children.  They need disposable diapers.  Several HTS nannies have fallen on the ice on their way to work and they need medicine to treat cuts and bruises. Gathering these reports together makes me think about how careful we have always been at Half the Sky to maintain our focus on nurture and education programs.  Ours is not a medical or relief organization.  There are many wonderful groups who do that work.  Probably the primary reason we’ve been able to accomplish so much and reach so many children is because we’ve maintained our focus on our core mission — providing nurturing care for children who’ve lost their families.. 

But a moment like this really cannot be ignored.  The tragedy of Hurricane Katrina in the US taught us that no matter how wealthy a country might be, its vulnerable citizens (old, poor, ill, and orphaned children) are the ones who suffer most when disaster strikes.  Even as China seems to be entering the first world, a disaster like this is quite simply crippling. We know that orphaned children will be among those who suffer the damage most. I say this because I think we should break one of Half the Sky’s rules and, if there are sufficient funds raised in the Little Mouse Emergency Fund, we should offer relief (water, food, diapers, quilts, clothing) to any orphanage where children need help.  Let’s see how this goes. If people are as generous as I think they might be, we will work with the provincial Bureaus of Civil Affairs in every hard-hit community, and offer assistance to all welfare institutions where there is need. 

Please lend a hand, however you can.  You can donate to the Little Mouse Emergency Fund by calling us in the US at +1-510-525-3377 or in Asia at +852- 2520-5266 or by clicking on “Donate Now” or download a form to mail or fax.  Donations are tax-deductible in US, Canada and Hong Kong.  Please forward this message and tell your friends and family. I will be back with an update very, very soon."

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