So why am I starting to feel uncomfortable?

I completely agree everything she did was wrong, it was malicious, cruel and completely inappropriate she had no right to do it.

I agree other bloggers need to be made aware of what happened and warned to keep their guards up about what they reveal on their blogs and in email conversations with strangers.

So why am I starting to feel uncomfortable and maybe just a little bit icky?

At what point does warning others of the danger of blogging about very personal issues become not that but some kind of public flogging?  At what point does it become not just putting voice to your view that what she did was wrong but something else?  At what point do you loose the moral high ground?

I don't defend what she did, I don't condone it in any way but does anything beyond warning fellow bloggers serve any purpose other than revenge?  Does it only harm the person who did this or does it harm her family?

If I think what she did was wrong then why do I feel so uncomfortable about all this?